Do guys care if girls shave down there?
Well, you see everyone has different tastes. There are some guys who like blondes and there are others that like brunettes. So, it really just depends on the type of guy. Most commonly, guys like little to no hair. Just to be save let’s just assume they do.
would fingering be considered "sex" for two women?
Well according to ask.com; vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex, masturbation, and mutual masturbation are considered sex. But I guess it just varies based on people’s different views. I myself don’t consider fingering or masturbation as sex.